Tuesday, October 26, 2010

Path to Happiness

Try to be happy:)

- forget the past, live the present
- control your mind
-enjoy little things of life
- don't judge
-care for your friends
-accept who you are

Planning a honeymoon

PLAN IN ADVANCE
- budget
- start planning ( what kind of place would you like to go to, weather,thing of what would you like to do ( sports,adventure,relax)
- decide where to go ( beach,mountain,big city,small town, hot or cold weather....)
- check travel agency packages,promotions and deals, before you try to make your own reservations.
- an itinerary and map or gps is always helpful on any trip

How to reduce your Wedding guest list

- set up your budget
- check your parents and in-laws guest list,and determine how many gustes would you like them to invite.
- the main guest list : family,close friends.
- make an other list with the people that you want to invite but not sure about it,yet.
- be selective
- don't send invites just because...
- think about the possibility of not inviting kids
- check your lists a few times, before you make your final list.
-avoid inviting some friends that you don't see or talk in years
- reception cards, with the number of guest can be a good idea
- ask the guests to RSVP

Guide to compose a good speech for your wedding

IMPORTANT TIPS
> no longer than 4 minutes
> don't drink before speech time
> stand up while giving speech
>add a light and smart funny word of short sentence

WHAT TO SAY?

GROOM:
> thank parents of the bride for letting him be part of their family and for the way they raised the bride,
> some words of love for the bride
>thank family and guest presence.
>thank BM/MH for their help

FATHER OF THE BRIDE:
> thank the guests presence.
>welcome the groom to their family.
>mention how beautiful his daughter looks ( or something nice), a cute or funny childhood memory
> thank the people that help and participate on wedding.
> mention his wife
> toast

GROOM PARENTS
> thank guest presence
> how much they live their son,childhood memory.
>welcome the bride to their family
> a nice advice or thought about the bride and groom new life.
> toast

Tips on how to deal with vendors

TIPS TO DEAL WHIT VENDORS

set up a budget (agree with partner)and number or guests.
* make a list of wedding priorities,what do you NEED, WANT or LIKE to have on your wedding, start with the needs, then get the want and like. This can save you money.

* don't take the first choice that vendors offer.(ask and check about promotions), and always read the small letter text on your contract BEFORE YOU SIGN OR PAY.
* compare and try as much as you need or want to. Nothing wrong with that!
* always ask all the WHAT IF:
- something gets lost or broken? How much will that cost?....

* don't take important deciSion IF: you are on your period,or upset

Ideas to try to do to have a Successful relationship with your partner

*have fun together ,be friends and a team.

*have good communication

*Learn to manage emotions and words( some words can hurt someone more than anything else)

*be thankful and supportive.

*acceptance

*have your own space.

*listen and try to understand.